A Divided House

Good Morning!
Many of us excel in the public spaces of our lives. We lead teams, solve problems, manage crises, and carry ourselves with strength and confidence. Yet behind closed doors, some of the same people who shine at work struggle to lead, nurture, or even confront issues within their own homes. King David was a warrior, worshiper, and the “apple of God’s eye”.

 

David was unmatched on the battlefield and revered in the kingdom, but when it came to his own household, he faltered. 

The events in 2 Samuel 13–14 reveal a painful truth: David’s silence, passivity, and refusal to address sin within his family created a breeding ground for resentment, revenge, and division. His failure to correct Amnon and comfort Tamar opened the door for Absalom to take matters into his own hands. What began as one act of wickedness spiraled into years of brokenness, bitterness, and rebellion. A divided house.

 

It’s easy to judge David, but many of us repeat the same pattern. We avoid hard conversations. We ignore warning signs. We hope problems will fix themselves. We pour our best energy into work, ministry, or public responsibilities while our families receive what’s left, if anything at all.

But God calls us to lead well everywhere, especially at home. The strength you show on the job must be matched by courage in your living room. The wisdom you offer others must be sought for your own household. The prayers you pray for the world must also cover your family.

 

A divided house will not stand. But a house surrendered to God, guided by His wisdom, and strengthened by His truth can be restored. 

Invite God into the places you’ve avoided. Address what needs healing. Lead with humility. And trust that God can bring unity where division once ruled.