The worst part of being strong

Society recognizes strong people. Leaders  who possess great character, Resilient, with sound judgment. Some are noted people like Dr. Martin Luther King, others are regular people in our community; pastors, friends and family. They too are strong. They are always giving, advising and helping others. We tend to pull and tug more those who advise us, never giving into account they are human. Because of their tireless efforts we assume everything is all right, we never ask if they are ok. Jesus knew weariness: “Jesus, tired as he was from the journey, sat down by the well” (John 4:6). Jesus knew loneliness: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46). Yet not one time does the Bible reflect that the disciples or people ever checked on Jesus well being. For those in your life who continuously give without complaint, take time to check on them. “The worst part of being strong is that no one ever ask if you are okay.” 

A divided house

We are great leaders, counselors and advisors at work. Yet many fail to become kings & queens of their homes. David; the “apple of God’s eye”, great warrior, King and leader failed in this area. He could not manage his own house. To better understand today’s scripture you have to read the back story (2 Sam. Chap. 13-14). David’s inability to reprimand his son and console his daughter promoted another son to take matters into his own hands. David lost control of his family - a divided house. the greatness you exemplify at work need to transfer to your home. Stop trying to fix it yourself or ignoring problems. seek God’s wisdom. A divided house will not stand.

You are a leader!

At many junctures in life we are close enough to a situation to relate but far enough ahead to motivate or take charge as a leader. Ironically, most remain silent. Justifying reasons why not to lead. You may not be in charge of an organization or church committee however there are situations where you can step up and take the lead. “Great leaders are those who are willing to give up something to help the little person.” A leader is close enough to a situation to relate and mentally ahead to motivate. A great leader must have faith. Without faith it is impossible to please GodHebrews 11:6. Paul was a prisoner on board a ship. Though he was a prisoner, he took charge and told the guards that their voyage was going to be disastrous. Through out the tedious journey Paul continuously empowered himself as a leader by the guidance of an angel of GodActs27:25-26.  True leadership is about bettering the lives of the people around you. Be encouraged! Stand up today and be the leader that you were called to be!

Actions speak louder than words

Parents are good at telling children what not to do. Their directives are continuously repeated while most Children forget or tune them out. As Christians, parents, teachers and leaders we expect people to adhere to our demands. But we forget the most important principle, lead by example.   

Children/people observe everything. We say one thing yet doing the opposite. 

Jesus always led by example. His most memorable moment was washing the disciples feet - he led by example (Jhn 13:5-6). In all things be cognizant of what you say and what you do. If you want someone to change, live by Jesus’ example. Actions speak louder than words.